WOMEN’S ORAL SEX GUIDE

Though oral sex is equally pleasurable to both men and women, very few women actually try to explore this avenue of sexual fulfillment for themselves. There are several inhibitions that play in their minds, and that is the reason why they remain clammed up to this world of pleasure.

If women do not like oral sex on them genuinely, then they have every right not to participate in it. However, there are some things about oral sex that all women must know. There are women who do not like oral sex in general, but wouldn’t mind doing it with someone they really love. Hence, there is a guide on oral sex that all women of the world can use.

Getting Started with Oral Sex

All men love their penises. Whether men are tall or short, fat or thin, fair or colored, they are in love with their own penises. They are generally proud of the size of their penis and of its shape, and are even fascinated by the way it gets an erection and becomes hard when it is aroused. Each man puts his own penis above other men’s and takes every opportunity to peek at other men’s penises in the toilets to see whether his is the biggest or not. Even when masturbating, men will hold their penis like a dear object and jack off.

This is very important for women to know. Women must know that men love their penises. And if women love their penises also, men will develop much better feelings for them. Men love it when women talk about their penises and fondle it, and this could be actually the start of a very loving and long-lasting relationship. That is why, women must make efforts during sex to give all the love and respect to their men’s penises, and oral sex is the best means to do so.

Positions in Oral Sex

There are a few things to bear in mind before you start giving fellatio to your partner – fellatio is the term for giving oral sex to men. The first thing to do is to assign yourself in a comfortable position. There are many positions you can arrange yourself in, but you must bear in mind that your mouth should be able to approach the man’s penis from the best angle. You can have you man lie on his back with his legs hoisted up in the air; or you can simply seat your man on a chair or sofa, while you kneel and take his penis in your mouth.

The sixty-nine position is very ideal if both of you want to perform oral sex on each other. However, though this position looks good in porn movies, it is not that practicable, because it is difficult to give and receive sexual pleasure at the same time.

Exploring the Male Genitals

When you are giving oral sex to your man, you must certainly pull all the stops in the act. Do not restrict yourself to just a few points on the penis and the testicles, but gauge his reaction in various areas. One of the best ways to do this is to keep the penis squeezed as you touch various parts of his genitals with your tongue. Check out the hardness of the penis with each touch. If your man really loves a particular touch, his penis will immediately stiffen and you will feel it. Major erotic regions on a man’s penis are the glans, i.e. the head, and the frenulum.

Techniques for Orgasm

Expert women can make their men reach orgasm with just their mouths. The best way is to start with a slow teasing kind of touch and then gradually increase the sucking action. Keep your teeth out of the way, or the penis will be hurt. Only the lips and the tongue (and the roof of the mouth) are to be used for oral sex. Also, you must explore other private parts of your man. Kiss his thighs and suck his testicles. A very important erogenous zone for men is located just below the testicular sac, and before the anus begins. Pushing this spot like a button will make any man come.

Also, you must not prolong your oral contact too much. If your man is fully aroused, then simple teasing games will actually agonize him. When you are sure he is totally aroused, go ahead and suck at his penis with loud slurping noises.

Men love the noises women make when they are worshipping their penises. It panders to their sense of machismo. The correct sucking motion for women is to wrap their whole mouth over the erect penis, and then suck it hard as they move upwards towards the glans. They must linger at the glans, sucking the whole head with their tongue. Then, they must again take the penis in their mouth in the same way and repeat the act.

And, one more important thing is to use your hands simultaneously. Keep caressing and fondling the other sensitive areas of his body. He will love it if you insert your fingers in his anus and tease him there.

Safety in Oral Sex

Oral sex is much safer than penetrative sex, but still condoms can be used for added protection. You can make putting the condom on, an act full of erotica on its own.

Vary Your Technique

Once you have become experienced in giving your man the enjoyment of fellatio, you can begin experimenting on his body with sex toys. A very good idea is to insert a butt plug in his anus as you give him oral sex. You can actually vary your technique with different sex toys and make the oral sex adventure more and more interesting for him each time.