The prostate is considered the male g-spot. The prostate is located behind the pubic bone and just below the bladder. The prostate is responsible for much of the fluid that is produced in a male’s ejaculate and is a very sensitive organ and if it is healthy, many men will experience great pleasure from stimulation of the prostate.
Before you begin, consider a warm bath or shower. This insures that everything in the area is clean. If you are concerned about having a bowel movement, you should definitely go to the bathroom prior to cleaning yourself. Don’t worry; feces only travel through the rectum when they are leaving the body so if you have had a bowel movement there shouldn’t be much of anything there. Many men have cleanliness issues when it comes to sex and anal sex so a nice warm bath is a good way to get started.
Next, you will also want to ensure that your fingernails are clean and smooth. The tissues in the rectum and anus are very sensitive and will tear easily. If you are playing with anal sex toys ensure that there are no seams or that they are filed down. You may also consider using latex gloves if your nails are long or if a woman with long nails will be providing the stimulation.
Now it’s time to get in the mood. If you are experimenting with a partner this may be easy. If you are going solo then consider an adult movie or masturbation. This is important because the prostate enlarges when you are aroused and will become more sensitive to pressure. Get in a comfortable position while your doing this. You will need access to your butt so experiment with positions and pillows.
Once you are comfy, begin by gently massaging externally. Massage the perineum and anus. The perineum is located between the anus and the scrotum. This can be very relaxing and pleasurable in itself. Work in a circular motion and gently push on the anus to relax the sphincter muscles.
When you are ready to penetrate tune in with your breath. Breathe deeply and insert your finger with the pad first and not the tip. Gently place the pad of your finger in the anus and as you exhale push out while you push your finger in. Remember to use lots of lubrication. Take a minute to rest once your inside until you get acquainted with the feeling.
About two inches in and towards your stomach, you will find a walnut shaped bump. This is the prostate and you may recognize it right away when you feel it. Once you have found it begin by experimenting with different touch and find what feels good. Some men like constant pressure while others like intermittent pressure. Some men also enjoy a vibrator for stimulation.
Now that you know where and how to stimulate your prostate, you should consider using different types of sex toys. Anal sex toys can provide a different type of stimulation. There are also anal sex toys made specifically for men and some vibrate at variable speeds. Butt plugs also provide constant prostate stimulation and can change the way an orgasm feels.
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