Roles reversal

For some women, the thought of strapping on a dildo has probably passed through their thoughts on occasion and many have been brave enough to suggest it. For some men, the thought has crossed their mind but there may still be some reservations. As anal sex looses it’s taboo status in society, more and more couples are making their way down to the local sex shop to check out the selection of harnesses and dildos available.

Many men are slowly warming up the idea of penetration. If they have experienced any type of anal sex play in the past, then they are more likely to be willing to let their women have some fun by being the penetrator instead of the penetrated. If you are a man thinking about being penetrated or a woman thinking about penetrating, then here are a few concepts to consider before you begin to play.

Open the Lines of Communication
Communication is key in anal sex. There is a lot of trust that is required in this type of sex and in order for it to be pleasurable for both parties involved you need to know what feels good and what doesn’t. If you are interested in starting anal sex play with your partner begin by suggesting the topic and discuss before you make your move. Reversing the roles through anal sex can bring up different emotions and have unexpected reactions, so you need to have discussed the topic prior to playing.

Self-Exploration
Whether you are a man or a woman, if you have never experienced anal sex then you may need to do some self-exploration. Grab a tube of lube and start exploring while you masturbate. This will give you an idea of what you like and what you don’t like and will help you to communicate better during the real thing.

Start Slow
Girls, don’t run down to the sex shop to buy the strap-on and other anal sex toys until you know what you are getting into. Experience anal sex with your partner without the toys first. Allow them to get to know you better with their fingers and some good lube before you break out the adult sex toys. For some individuals, it may take some time before you are ready to play with toys.

Start Shopping Online
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Playtime
Girls, get comfortable with your new strap-on by practicing putting it on and controlling the dildo. You may have to do some practice runs before you get really good at it. Women are not use to using their hips and legs in this fashion so it may take some getting used to at first.

Safe Anal Sex
As with any type of anal sex, don’t forget the lubrication and the rules of anal sex. Start slowly and make sure you clean your sex toys properly when you are done. Keep the lines of communication open and the experience is guaranteed to be pleasurable for you both.

Role reversal often arouses sexual feelings and emotions that you didn’t know existed. This is an opportunity to turn the tables and try out new positions and do some deeper exploration. This is not mainstream sex and it will typically lead to hotter sex than you ever imagined.