The G Spot

The G spot consistently finds itself in the spotlight during most sexual encounters. Many may actually wonder where this spot is at and some people may have difficulty locating. Often considered the “magic button” for most women, the G spot is the one area of your body that will provide intense sexual pleasure if hit correctly.

You may be lucky and find your G spot immediately. The first time you have an orgasm you may have found it or you may be looking for that intense sexual pleasure and it just hasn’t presented itself yet. Either way you should not get caught up in finding this special area and you should not pressure yourself. Sex is not meant to be stressful, so when you find – you find it.

One way to begin your search for your G spot is to turn yourself on. Do a little self-exploration and homework of your own. The area around the G spot is spongy and will become engorged with blood when you’re turned on. This helps you located the area. You may have to experiment with positions in order to find the right spot. Try lying on your back, on your stomach or even squatting. Begin by placing your palm face down on the vulva and insert your finger into your vagina.

When you are inside and up to about the second knuckle you will feel a little bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of the vagina. Move your fingers as if you are asking someone to come to you. Press down and pull forward on the spot with your fingers.

If you find yourself in an odd situation trying to stimulate the G spot by hand, consider using an adult sex toy designed for G Spot stimulation. A good G spot vibrator or dildo may help you out. Apply lube to the toy and insert the tip of the toy pointing up toward the wall of the vagina. You may need to insert it a couple of inches to find it.

Some women will enjoy pressure on the spot or the vibration of a toy. Experiment with either to find what feels the best for you. Pressure works well for most women so you will want to use your sex toy in short strokes while applying firm pressure. Change your movements up a bit to keep the area stimulated, as you don’t want to numb it with the vibrator.

When you feel an urge to pee, then the G spot is being aroused and you may wish to add to the feeling with clitoral stimulation. Maintain the stroking on the G spot while you do this. Relax and let yourself go at this point. Some women may actually feel this feeling of needing to pee but if you stick with the stroking it will pass and you will have an orgasm.

A G spot orgasm can take some practice to get everything just right. If you don’t orgasm the first time just keep trying. Try varying your position, use a different toy or experiment with Kegel exercises. The G spot is most responsive when your aroused so try stimulating it after you have already had an orgasm. Don’t get hung up on trying to have a G sport orgasm. If you have been trying and it just isn’t working pleasure yourself in a manner that you know will work and try again later. Whatever you do, don’t get discouraged.