Friday, January 11, 2008

ENJOYABLE VARIETIES IN ANAL SEX

The term anal sex is actually a quite diverse term. Anal sex does not just mean anal intercourse, which is the name given to actual penetrative sex – but it can mean a host of arousing things that can be done with the anus. Some of these acts that involve the anus are fingering, anilingus (which is also known as rimming), fisting and even using anal sex toys for stimulation.

If you are intrigued by anal sex, but have never tried it out, you can check out the list of anal sex methods below. They will help you get the pleasure you want from your anal experience, if you ever decide to have one.

Fingering

The anal opening is rich with nerve endings. This reason can be easily stimulated with fingers. Couples use the fingering technique as foreplay for the sexual act, or they might use it as a main part of anal intercourse. Anal fingering may be done in conjunction with other erotic acts, such as oral sex.

It is a fact that anal stimulation by fingers is much more pleasurable to men than to women. This is because men have the prostate gland close to the anal tract, which the women do not have. The prostate is a very erogenous zone for men and stimulation in that area is akin to the stimulation of the G-spot in women.

The right way to finger a man's anus is to apply pressure on the lower portion of the anal crack, which is closer to the testicles. This will enable stimulation of the prostate gland. In woman, this region is not quite erogenous, but the use of sex toys can bring on added pleasure.

While fingering the anus, it is necessary to use some kind of anal lube for lubrication. Added precautions must be taken to prevent infections, such as the use of cloves. Nails should be kept trimmed to avoid injuries.

Anilingus (Anal Rimming)

Anal rimming means the stimulation of the area aperture with the tongue. Being a very erogenous zone, anal rimming provides immense pleasure to both man and woman. Again, the pleasure is higher in men because of the presence of the prostate in the vicinity of the anal opening.

Infections might occur with anal rimming, though, especially if proper hygiene is not maintained. One way to reduce the chances of infection is to put a napkin on the anus and then perform the anilingus. This will surely provide some kind of protection to the transmission of infections.

Fisting

When the anus is penetrated with the hand, it is known as anal fisting. Anal fisting must actually seem to be an unachievable feat, but with the help of patience and earnestness between the partners – and of course a profuse amount of lubricant – it can be achieved. Only a great deal of practice can make this possible. For amateurs, fisting could be very painful, and could also cause some tears in the anal area. Hence, the partner being fisted must immediately caution the other partner to stop when things are beginning to go wrong.

There are risks associated with fisting too, since the anus is an area of removal of food wastes. Gloves are important during fisting.

Anal Toys

Several toys have been developed to give special pleasure to the anal tract. The following is a list of some of the popular sex toys :

Anal Beads – These are a collection of several beads of different sizes and textures, which are meant to be inserted into the rectal tract through the anal opening. The different sizes and textures of the beads provide different kinds of pleasures to the person. Even the removal of the beads is an erotic act in itself. The beads are removed in different styles and at different speeds. In most cases, the removal of the anal beads brings the man or woman on whom the beads were used to an orgasm.

Anal Balls – Anal balls are exactly the same as beads, only that their sizes are bigger. They are designed for people who want to allow more pressure to pass through the anus.

Anal vibrators – Anal vibrators are mechanical devices that can vibrate. They are meant to be inserted into the anus, where the vibration provides an extremely sexually gratifying experience. Anal vibrators are not as broad as dildos that women use to stimulate their vaginas. The small thickness allows the anal vibrators to fit smugly in the anus and provide extreme pleasure.

To make the whole act more pleasurable, the anal vibrators come in several textures and colors. They are meant to give different visual and functional sense to the user.

Butt Plugs and Anal Probes

Both of these are devices meant to be inserted into the anus. They provide a smug fullness sensation in the anus. Once inserted, they can be kept on during the entire sexual act. Again, butt plugs and anal probes are of different sizes and shapes, so that they can cater to people of all sizes and desires. In function, butt plugs are very similar to anal vibrators, but with one major difference. Butt plugs do not vibrate.

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