Airport Bathroom Sex

If it’s true that we learn something new every day, then many of us learned lots of new things during the recent kerfuffle over U.S. Sen. Larry Craig’s arrest in June at the Minneapolis-St. Paul airport. For instance:

* It’s not a crime to make a pass at someone in a public place, but it could be a crime to engage in conduct that elicits “alarm or resentment” in others. Asking for a phone number in a bar: OK. Implicitly offering sex in an airport bathroom: Not OK.

* There’s an intricate sequence to soliciting sex in a public restroom that involves tapping feet and placing objects in front of the bottom of the stall door. There are ancient Balinese mating rituals that are less elaborate. Wouldn’t an ad on Craigslist be a lot less trouble?

* Apparently, the MSP men’s room is a hotbed for the type of “cruising” of which Craig is accused. As a result, police have made numerous arrests in such cases in recent months. In the dozens of times I’ve used airport bathrooms, I’ve somehow managed to elude these menacing overtures.

* A guilty plea can be withdrawn, but only if the accused can prove his due process rights were violated or that he was coerced into the plea.

Maybe readers better versed in the law and/or anonymous sexual encounters knew these things already. But I didn’t, and I’m glad to look on the fix Craig has found himself in as a valuable learning experience.

Sex Education

Should schools include less or more sex education? More, and as early as possible. Fifth grade is not too soon. I remember a kid in my class running around and shouting "masturbation"— Sister Patricia had to take him out in the hall and tell him that he shouldn't be throwing the word around in class. She was an unusual nun in that she didn't make him feel bad or sinful.

How explicit should it be? Young kids can be told about condoms, and by ninth grade, classes should include explicit photos, a doll, or a model of very specific anatomy.

How did you learn about sex? By running around with my friends. By the age of 12, I had a little girlfriend. We would make out in the hallway and I'd touch her little breasts.

Sex 101

Wifeys, I hope you watched Oprah today! The show was all about how to live your best sex life. Author of Real Sex for Real Women, Dr. Laura Berman provided expertise and tips that we can apply to our relationships.

Dr. Berman says every couple deserves a happy, healthy and fulfilling sex life. "Having that passion and that sexual connection in your relationship is what separates you from being roommates and co-parents," she says. "It's really what gives you that intimacy, that connection, that life force, that life energy in your relationship."

Here are her top 5 tips of improving your sex life.

1. Tell the truth- No faking it.

2. Ask for what you want. This also means you have to explore what you want.

3. Let go of negative messages. Positive communication is the best way to get results.

4. See your doctor. Especially if you notice changes or have questions about your physical body.

5. Make sex a priority.

WOMEN’S ORAL SEX GUIDE

Though oral sex is equally pleasurable to both men and women, very few women actually try to explore this avenue of sexual fulfillment for themselves. There are several inhibitions that play in their minds, and that is the reason why they remain clammed up to this world of pleasure.

If women do not like oral sex on them genuinely, then they have every right not to participate in it. However, there are some things about oral sex that all women must know. There are women who do not like oral sex in general, but wouldn’t mind doing it with someone they really love. Hence, there is a guide on oral sex that all women of the world can use.

Getting Started with Oral Sex

All men love their penises. Whether men are tall or short, fat or thin, fair or colored, they are in love with their own penises. They are generally proud of the size of their penis and of its shape, and are even fascinated by the way it gets an erection and becomes hard when it is aroused. Each man puts his own penis above other men’s and takes every opportunity to peek at other men’s penises in the toilets to see whether his is the biggest or not. Even when masturbating, men will hold their penis like a dear object and jack off.

This is very important for women to know. Women must know that men love their penises. And if women love their penises also, men will develop much better feelings for them. Men love it when women talk about their penises and fondle it, and this could be actually the start of a very loving and long-lasting relationship. That is why, women must make efforts during sex to give all the love and respect to their men’s penises, and oral sex is the best means to do so.

Positions in Oral Sex

There are a few things to bear in mind before you start giving fellatio to your partner – fellatio is the term for giving oral sex to men. The first thing to do is to assign yourself in a comfortable position. There are many positions you can arrange yourself in, but you must bear in mind that your mouth should be able to approach the man’s penis from the best angle. You can have you man lie on his back with his legs hoisted up in the air; or you can simply seat your man on a chair or sofa, while you kneel and take his penis in your mouth.

The sixty-nine position is very ideal if both of you want to perform oral sex on each other. However, though this position looks good in porn movies, it is not that practicable, because it is difficult to give and receive sexual pleasure at the same time.

Exploring the Male Genitals

When you are giving oral sex to your man, you must certainly pull all the stops in the act. Do not restrict yourself to just a few points on the penis and the testicles, but gauge his reaction in various areas. One of the best ways to do this is to keep the penis squeezed as you touch various parts of his genitals with your tongue. Check out the hardness of the penis with each touch. If your man really loves a particular touch, his penis will immediately stiffen and you will feel it. Major erotic regions on a man’s penis are the glans, i.e. the head, and the frenulum.

Techniques for Orgasm

Expert women can make their men reach orgasm with just their mouths. The best way is to start with a slow teasing kind of touch and then gradually increase the sucking action. Keep your teeth out of the way, or the penis will be hurt. Only the lips and the tongue (and the roof of the mouth) are to be used for oral sex. Also, you must explore other private parts of your man. Kiss his thighs and suck his testicles. A very important erogenous zone for men is located just below the testicular sac, and before the anus begins. Pushing this spot like a button will make any man come.

Also, you must not prolong your oral contact too much. If your man is fully aroused, then simple teasing games will actually agonize him. When you are sure he is totally aroused, go ahead and suck at his penis with loud slurping noises.

Men love the noises women make when they are worshipping their penises. It panders to their sense of machismo. The correct sucking motion for women is to wrap their whole mouth over the erect penis, and then suck it hard as they move upwards towards the glans. They must linger at the glans, sucking the whole head with their tongue. Then, they must again take the penis in their mouth in the same way and repeat the act.

And, one more important thing is to use your hands simultaneously. Keep caressing and fondling the other sensitive areas of his body. He will love it if you insert your fingers in his anus and tease him there.

Safety in Oral Sex

Oral sex is much safer than penetrative sex, but still condoms can be used for added protection. You can make putting the condom on, an act full of erotica on its own.

Vary Your Technique

Once you have become experienced in giving your man the enjoyment of fellatio, you can begin experimenting on his body with sex toys. A very good idea is to insert a butt plug in his anus as you give him oral sex. You can actually vary your technique with different sex toys and make the oral sex adventure more and more interesting for him each time.

EXPLORE ALL THE VARIETIES OF ANAL TOYS

To express it in a very moderate term, most people consider anal sex to be… disgusting! But the thing is, vast majority of people who shy away from anal sex have never tried it in the first place. Their dislike for anal sex stems from several peripheral reasons, without any personal point of view in it at all.

It's not wise to coerce someone into anal sex, so I am not going to try it either. However, I shall be talking about it so that you get to know what going anal is all about.

First and foremost, we must realize that there are many people out there who simply love anal sex, even better than vaginal penetration. Behind closed doors, a very large number of couples are trying this out; even much more than you could imagine. There will be nothing on the person's face to tell whether he or she practices and loves anal sex or not, but it is entirely possible that there are many anal sex lovers among people you meet on an everyday basis.

The market of anal sex toys is booming. This is a clear indication that there are several people out there doing it. And these anal sex toys are not new at all. There were some anal toys even in the ancient times, but modern toys have developed on them and included many safety measures to make the act much more pleasurable.

Here we are going to discuss some anal toys that have become very popular today. Read this article and see if you cannot spice up your sex life with a spot of anal adventure.

Butt Plugs

Novices to anal sex mostly make their beginnings with butt plugs. These plugs are meant to be inserted into the anus, and kept there for as long as wanted. As such, they seem to be very similar to dildos, but there is a difference. Butt plugs are made narrower than dildos. This is because the width of the anal aperture is much lesser than the vaginal opening.

To add to the safety of the butt plug, its base is made broader than the rest of it, so that it does not enter the body fully and becomes irretrievable.

Today, there is immense variety of butt plugs available in the market, with different colors, textures and sizes. There is a butt plug for everyone who wishes to make a foray into anal sex techniques

There are many ways to use the butt plug also. Both men and women can use it. Men prefer it much more, because their anuses are more erogenous than women's. Men have the prostate close to their anus, and the spot from which the prostate can be stimulated is sometimes called as the male G-spot. The butt plug can be inserted during foreplay and then kept on for the entire act of intercourse, or it can also be used when masturbating. Hence, the butt plug finds its use in both solo as well as partner sex. Some people enjoy the sensation of the butt plug so much that they keep it on even when they are doing their normal activities.

But the butt plug's main use is for the initiation of the person into anal sex. The butt plug is the first device that a person must use if he or she wants to enter the world of anal sex. The butt plug will loosen the anal area, and make it ready for all kinds of penetrations and anal sex methods.

Anal Stimulators or Anal Vibrators

Anal stimulators are a modification of the butt plugs. When they are inserted into the anus, they vibrate, increasing the sexual arousal that the user gets. The vibration of the anal stimulators are made in such a way that they provide the tingling pleasure at all the sensitive nerve endings that are present in the anal area.

Again, there are endless varieties in anal stimulators. There are different materials, sizes and colors used. Hence, everyone can choose an anal vibrator that suits their own body and temperament.

Beginners to anal sex would do better to start with narrow anal stimulators so that they do not find the inserting act too painful. And even when pros are using the anal stimulator, there is no point in giving it fast vibration right from the start. Always commence the sexual act with low speed of vibration and then work its way upwards.

Anal Beads or Anal Balls

Anal beads and balls are devices that contain a string of beads or balls, which are meant to be inserted into the anus. Beads are smaller than balls, and hence easier to penetrate. The pleasure begins when the insertion is done, but the pleasure increases tenfold when the beads or balls are pulled out from the anus, one by one, and with differing speeds. In most cases, the pulling out of the beads and the orgasm of the person will coincide.

The number of beads or balls is kept at five. They have differing sizes too, to give differing pleasure to the person using it. Though the Chinese had invented the anal beads several centuries back, the fact remains that today's beads are much more safer than hygienic for users.

There is a healthy variety in anal toys and if you are planning to embark on your own anal experience, then you must know of the different options. And always keep the lube handy if anything seems to go wrong.